Let’s talk about the excuses I hear allllll the time when it comes to doing a boudoir session. And trust me, I get it. Life is chaotic, our brains are full, and we’re usually the last ones on our own damn to-do list. But I’m here to lovingly call you out — and remind you why you 1000% deserve this experience.
So let’s break it down:
“I want to lose weight first.”
Oh girl. This one. Look — I hear this from almost every client before they book. And guess what? Almost every one of those women shows up, has the time of her life, sees her photos, and says, “Damn. Why did I wait so long?”
You don’t need a smaller waist or a flatter stomach to be worthy of feeling confident, beautiful, and sexy. You don’t need to look like someone else — you just need to show up as you. Right now. Because your body is already enough. I pose you in ways that highlight what you love, and I guide you the entire time so you feel strong, empowered, and HOT. Not kinda cute… HOT.
“I can’t afford it right now.”
Totally fair — life is expensive! But here’s the thing: I offer payment plans. Like real, doable, flexible ones. This is an investment in YOU, and we’ll make it work based on what’s comfortable for you. You don’t need to have it all up front. If this is something on your heart, don’t count yourself out — let’s talk and figure out a plan. You are worth investing in.
“I don’t have time.”
Okay. Listen. I know you’re busy. Work, kids, errands, other people constantly needing you — I feel you. But when was the last time you carved out a few hours just for you? A boudoir session is your permission slip to step away from the chaos and reconnect with yourself. And let’s be honest… if you wait until life isn’t busy, you’ll be waiting forever. You deserve a break. You deserve to be seen.
“I don’t have anyone to give the photos to.”
This one makes me wanna hug you. Because you are the best reason to do this. You don’t need a partner to “justify” feeling sexy. These images are a celebration of YOU. Of everything you’ve overcome, of how far you’ve come, of your body and soul and badassness. You can absolutely gift them to a future someone, but honestly? This is the gift you get to keep. And it’ll change how you see yourself forever.
“I don’t know how to be sexy.”
Perfect. Because that’s my job. I don’t expect you to show up and know what to do — I guide you from head to toe, hand placement to facial expressions. I’ll hype you up the whole time. You don’t have to “act sexy.” You just have to feel good. And once you do? That confidence? That glow? That’s sexy. That’s real. And you already have it inside you.
If you’ve been thinking about doing a boudoir shoot but something’s been holding you back, I hope this helped bust a few of those doubts. You are not too big, too busy, too broke, or too awkward. You’re just ready. Even if you don’t fully feel it yet — you are.
Let’s do this for YOU.
Because Nice Boudie sessions? They’re not just about photos.
They’re about reminding you who the hell you are.
Ready to chat? Slide into my inbox — I got you.
– Jamee
